Akad Nikah Tersebut....

Just want to share a story on akad nikah ;P

Petikan ini saya dapat dari kawan saya. Citernya gini.. Pada cuti hari minggu yang lalu, aku menghadiri Satu Majlis akad nikah kawan pada kawan ku. Waktu tu aku bercuti dikampung dia. Jadi bila ada kenduri macam tu dia pun pergi dan ajak aku sekali. Aku pun ikut sama.Masa tu majlis akad nikah tu dijalankan diruang tamu. Ramai orang aku tengok, sambil duduk bersila mengelilingi tok kadi dan pengantin lelaki. Dahsyat, pengantin tu duduk atas bantal macam raja. Masa bersila tu, aku pun mengesot sikit2 untuk dengar apa yang tok kadi akan tanya. Rupanya macam2 jugak tok kadi tanya. Tapi ada satu soalan yang menyebabkan aku malu besar... Tok kadi tanya pasal satu hari berapa kali wajib solat, dengan lajunye pengantin lelaki tu jawab "lima". Tok kadi tanya lagi, bagi contoh2 najis kecil, dia pun jawap kencing baby yang kecik2 lagi. Tok kadi pun angguk ler, jadi aku rasa jawapan tu ok la kut. Tok kadi tanya lagi contoh najis besar, pengantin lelaki mula panik, jeling kiri, jeling kanan, mula tengok syiling, aku rasa macam nak tolong je pengantin lelaki tu. Bukannye susah, jawapannya anjing dan babi je,.. tapi pengantin lelaki tu dah mula berpeluh jantan keluar kat dahi.. tok kadi mula senyum. Aku sebut dalam hati moga2 dia dengar 'anjing ngan babi ler..', tapi rupanya aku cakap dalam hati dia tak dengar. Aku tak tahu apa yang jadi selepas itu, kerana majlis tu jadi kecoh kerana ramai orang yang berada sekeliling majlis tu yg tgh minum air sirap, tersembur keluar minuman tue terkena baju ramai orang, aku pun sama, masa tu aku tengah minum sirap tu, tiba2 aku semburkan balik, dah kene member kat tepi2, kecoh jadinya, aku pegang mata aku, penuh dengan air mata.Yang aku ingat masa tok kadi tanya tentang contoh najis besar kat pengantin tu keadaan senyap sunyi..tapi bila pengantin tu jawap "Taik Gajah"suasana jadik hingar bingar dengan gelak ketawa orang yang dah tak boleh tahan, nak control macamana. "taik gajah. besar betul.. nak2 bila gajah makan durian."


P/S: I bet the groom is panicking inside.. And, dia tak leh pk straight.. Nervous sgt2 agaknyer.

Communication Block

I have never thought I would face great difficulties in communications... Anyhow, there's always the first for everything, right.. At my current company, all colleagues in my teams are Indian and they're from India. I could'nt quite catch their burr or slangs eventhough they spoke in English.. They spoke in English as though they translated Indian language into English, and I could'nt catch what are they saying at times...
Hopefuly, I could diminsh this blocks away from me, soon... real soon...

Anyway, lyrics below is not related at all with the main issues of the post. Its just that, the songs is really good and I want to share it with you guys. Yeah, as you can guess the songs reveals my vulnerabilities and I do feel exactly as the songs mean. Towards whom? Thats a big secrets of mine.. ^_^

Artist/Band: Rascal Flatts
Album: Other Songs
Song Title: What Hurts the Most


I can take the rain on the roof of this empty house
That don’t bother me
I can take a few tears now and then and just let them out
I’m not afraid to cry every once in a while
Even though going on with you gone still upsets me
There are days every now and again
I pretend I’m ok
But that’s not what gets me


What hurts the most
Was being so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
And never knowing
What could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was tryin’ to do


It’s hard to deal with the pain of losing you everywhere I go
But I’m doin’ It
It’s hard to force that smile when I see our old friends and I’m alone
Still Harder
Getting up, getting dressed, livin’ with this regret
But I know if I could do it over
I would trade give away all the words that I saved in my heart
That I left unspoken


What hurts the most
Is being so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
And never knowing
What could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was trying to do